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Embracing Our Strengths: The Power of Self-Belief in Building Authentic Connections

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Updated: Sep 11, 2023



In this fast-paced world, it's easy to fall into the trap of focusing solely on our shortcomings and areas for improvement. But what if we shifted our perspective and embraced what we are truly good at? Join me on a journey of self-discovery as I share my personal experiences and reflections on leveraging strengths to build authentic connections - both within ourselves and with others.


For a long time, I shied away from talking about my business, believing that I lacked people skills. Negative experiences with individuals only reinforced my belief that I was better off hiding behind processes and leaving the client-facing side to my business partners. However, fate had different plans for me, and circumstances pushed me into a more client-facing role, forcing me to interact with people.



To my surprise, I discovered that I had a knack for connecting with others. Encouragement from new friends and colleagues helped me to realise that I had misjudged myself. It was a revelation – I had to believe in my own abilities.

If you find yourself doubting your own strengths, here are some reflections that may help:


  1. Self-Belief: If we don't believe in ourselves, why should others? Embracing our strengths starts with cultivating a genuine belief in our own abilities.

  2. Seek Feedback: Ask others about your strengths. You may be surprised by the insights people have about you that you may not even recognise in yourself.

  3. Create Value: Identifying our strengths is not about seeking validation, but rather discovering how we can use these strengths to create greater value for ourselves, others, and our business.

  4. Starting from Strength: Armed with the knowledge of what we excel in, we can approach everything we do from a position of strength, empowering us to tackle challenges with confidence.

  5. Supporting Others: When we recognise our own strengths, we can use them to support and uplift others. After all, with great powers, comes great responsibility – and the opportunity to make a positive impact in the lives of those around us.


Now, I make a conscious effort to ask my clients what they appreciate about working with me. Moreover, I share the strengths that I see in them, nurturing an environment of mutual support and growth.


Let's break free from the narrative of our shortcomings and embrace our strengths. By believing in ourselves, seeking feedback, and leveraging our unique abilities, we can forge authentic connections that bring value to our lives, the lives of others, and our businesses. Together, let's unlock our true potential and make a difference in the world.





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